So starts the month of love. The stores are stocked with hearts and chocolates, florists are gearing up for that one special day that will make their whole season worth-while. You know which day I'm speaking of--February 14th--Valentine's Day. The retail world really has dipped a big hand into turning this day into something more than it was ever meant to be. It's a day of girly romantic comedy flicks... a day of hearts, hugs, and over-spending beyond our limits. The question I usually have during this holiday is...why do we buy into this overly retailed holiday? Wasn't Christmas enough? The commercials, the advertisements, the magazine clips...books, poetry, stories... fairy tales and happily-ever-afters.
If we were really in love...if we are so fortunate and lucky to be people who have found love in ourselves and in our lives, then having this day should be no different than any other. Feeling special and unique...dare I say extraordinary, should be a regular occurrence. Should be...but we get so wrapped up and preoccupied with our work and errands and responsibilities including any surprises that life than throw in just to keep us on your toes. And we can't help but forget to take a minute away from our focus and breathe...we forget about all the little things that when they are added together help make the big picture possible.
We can't look for the silver lining...
We can't always see the best of everything. We can, however, put our trust in faith and push forward. When we aren't looking or expecting it, the trim will shine bright.
